Wednesday, December 31, 2008

From Jordan

Christmas is over….really before it even began. Coupled with the warm weather here in the States and then our DR vacay, it never really felt like Christmas much. I postponed writing this blog thinking that I would think of something really great to say. Well the days passed and I figured I better go ahead and write before Lauren called me internationally wanting to know why I hadn’t done her homework assignment.
Christmas was a little different for each of us this year:

After talking to Lauren on Christmas Eve, we found out that the old woman living in her house had died and a nine day funeral was taking place outside her bedroom complete with moaning and wailing. So scratch the pig roast; no Christmas celebration for you! (I’ll let her tell you more about that in her next blog.)

For me, her absence was definitely felt – mainly I miss having a person to roll my eyes with when Mom or Dad does something “funny”. Last year it was Dad blowing into his stocking after it was empty. This year it was Mom dancing to her new iPod. Now that was genuinely funny. I really want to try to upload pictures to this site so everyone can appreciate the humor.

I can’t wait to get back to the DR and see Lauren. Hopefully on the next visit I can stay with her in Baoba and learn more about the people and the town. It’s obvious that the people there love her just as much as we do!

Wednesday, December 17, 2008

An Early Christmas

The day that I have been waiting for finally arrived this past week: my family came to visit! While I was excited about seeing them and spending a relaxing week in a resort in Puerto Plata, I was even more excited about them meeting everyone in Baoba and everyone in Baoba meeting them. We walked all over the town, visiting the school and its professors, the kids in my youth group and English classes, and all of the people who went out of their way to make me feel comfortable in Baoba when I first arrived. Of course, the introductions were awkward with lots of pauses and me translating english into spanish and spanish into english, but I think everyone left with the impression that I am definitely in a comfortable place here in Baoba. It was so refreshing to hear everyone in Baoba tell my parents how they need not worry about my safety because I am a part of their family and they all will take care of me. And it was also nice to hear them all ask me to promise to return back to Baoba after my trip in Puerto Plata because they were worried I wouldn't return.

It definitely does not seem like Christmas now. It's 80 degrees here, and I go to the beach almost daily. There aren't any Christmas trees, snow, or traditional carols, and I think this is the first year in about 10 years that I'm not going to Concord Pres. for Project Christmas or the Christmas Eve service, so that's hard to come to terms with. But luckily, Mom, Dad and Jordan were able to bring a little bit of Christmas down here with them. They arrived with a 6 inch ornamental tree that I will put in my bedroom and presents that I can open on Dec. 25. Dominicans don't really celebrate Christmas Day; their big celebration is Christmas Eve or Noche Buena, where everyone roasts a pig (hawaiian-luau style) and dances merengue and bachata, so that will certainly be a different experience.


I've given Mom, Dad and Jordan homework to write an entry in the blog so that you can get their perspective on the Dominican Republic as well. If I don't get to update the blog again within the next week, have a merry christmas and a happy new year! And when you see Jordan, give her an extra hug from her big sister; apparently she isn't enjoying being an only child as much as she thought she would.

From Mom & Dad in Baoba

Well, I think we now know how the Pied Piper felt as we walked through the streets of Baoba with LR. As we are being shown around the town and meeting all the new people she is working with, the crowd that follows keeps growing, with the teens that obviously would follow her anywhere.
It is a great feeling to see the acceptance of LR into not only their community but into their families and lives. It seems that at every other house we are told how she is their newest daughter and a major part of their families. We feel she is being well taken care of. It is apparent that she is now a major part of this small rural community, with their expectations as well as hers growing into one. As parents, it is such a joy to watch LR be a part of this community in need knowing that with each day her accomplishments with them will grow.

Friday, November 28, 2008

Dia de Accion de Gracias

Happy (belated) thanksgiving everyone! Since Thanksgiving obviously isn't celebrated in the Dominican Republic, I am here in the capital to celebrate with all of the other Peace Corps volunteers. We had this huge all day event yesterday at a fancy shmancy country club. We each paid 500 pesos to come to the festivities, but it was so worth it. I went swimming (my first time swimming on Thanksgiving! Crazy!), played soccer, beach volleyball and dominoes, danced with my fellow youth volunteers in a talent show, and danced in a bachata and merengue contest. And the food was great- turkey, stuffing, cranberries, cheesy mashed potatoes, batata (which is like the dominican equivalent to sweet potatoes), broccoli, salad, and pumpkin and pecan pie. There were about 200 people at the thanksgiving, and since for the first time EVER I could not celebrate Thanksgiving with my real family, it was nice to celebrate it with my peace corps family.

Things in Baoba are really moving along. I play dominoes every night (surprise, surprise) with a group of teenage boys that come to my house, and during the day I visit houses and chat with the women of the houses. I had my first english class on Tuesday, and there was a great turnout. 18 students showed up, ranging in age from 11 to 27, and they all had so much energy and enthusiasm. Within the 2 hour class, they learned how to introduce themselves by stating their name, hometown, nationality and profession, and then they just played a lot of competitive learning games. It was great, and now I'm not so nervous for my next group of students on Saturday.

With my youth group, we're doing an angelito thing for christmas, which is kind of like secret santa. So every Wednesday (when our youth group meets) we give a small 20 peso present like candy to the person whose name we drew out of a bag, and then on the last day we have a big christmas party and give a 200 peso present. My person is a 15 year old girl so that's an easy one to buy a present for. I have no idea what I would have bought if I had selected the names of one of the 30 year old guys that are in my youth group.

Saturday, November 15, 2008

The good, the bad, and the ugly

The Good: I have started a "club de corredores" with the youth in Baoba. I started running to the beach every morning, and each morning I would go, more and more kids would meet me at the corner to run with me. So I turned it into a club. Now there are about 14 members, and we run every Saturday and Sunday. Although I need to note that I use the term "run" very loosely. I run, they walk in their velour tank tops, flip flops, and blue jeans. And they think I'm they crazy one for running in shorts and a t-shirt. But anyways, I promised them that if they ran for 10 weeks, I would throw them a party, so they're all pretty siked about that. And also I'm trying to figure out a way that I can use the club to teach them about exercise and nutrition...and maybe also have them pick up trash around the beach.

The Good: English classes start next week. I got sick and tired of having every one in Baoba ask me "When are you going to start working?" They don't seem to understand that before I can do my work, I have to get to know the community and its resources. In fact, Peace Corps recommends that we don't begin any programs until after living in the community for three months. But I decided to go ahead and give the people what they want. So I'm going to be teaching two English classes per week, each one for 2 hours, for 16 weeks. Hopefully, then they will give me a break.

The Bad
: While my living situation is nice (I have my own room and bathroom), I find myself getting more and more annoyed at the people who are constantly there. Technically the people who live there are my Dona (who is deaf) and her 14-year-old neice. But everyday my dona's daughter drops off her two bratty kids to spend the day there. And let me tell you, they are horrible! One is 6 months, and all he does is cry. But I can deal with him. Worse, is the 2 year old who isn't potty-trained, yet his parents don't want to buy diapers for him. So he just runs around naked and pees everywhere in the house. He also cries and cries, and then my dona yells at him, and then he pees because he's scared. It's a vicious cycle and a constant headache.

The Ugly
: I am recovering from a week-long bout of conjunctivitis. Let me just copy what I wrote into my journal about it on Monday: "I'm sitting here in my bed, doing the exact opposite of what I'm supposed to be doing. I'm being antisocial, because, alas I have conjunctivitis (pronounced cone-yunk-ti-vi-tis in espanol). My right eye is leaking pus; but on the bright side, it only leaks half the time because during the other half of the time, I cannot even open it. Also it is currently burning from the cherry juice that all of my neighbors squeezed into it as a cure-all. All I really want to do right now is lie on the couch of the Teal House and watch Arrested Development episodes with Noora and Harold. But that is impossible, so I am just laying in my room that feels like sauna and hoping for a quick recovery." After the cherry juice episode, I went to the pharmacy and bought eye drops, and am 90% recovered. Modern medicine certainly works wonders.

Well that's about all I know. I've basically just been doing a whole lot of drinking cafecitos, playing dominoes, and showing off my shuffling skills (everyone in this country is stunned by my ability to rapidly shuffle playing cards). I made the 1.5 hour trip into the big city of San Francisco de Macoris to use the internet and have lunch with other volunteers today, so today is the most excitement I've gotten in about 3 weeks.

Thursday, October 30, 2008

Telephone Number and PICTURES!

Hey guys! The Peace Corps just gave me a cell phone for my time in the Dominican Republic. If you buy a calling card, you can definitely call (or text) me anytime.

The number is: 1-809-723-9939.

And finally I have put pictures up online. It's an extremely slow process in a country where high-speed internet is not very readily available, so be patient with me.

The web address is: http://picasaweb.google.com/LRams728

Tuesday, October 28, 2008

And the next stage begins...

So much has happened in these past 2 weeks, so here is the latest Peace Corps news.

All of the youth volunteers left Constanza on Saturday, October 18. We had all really bonded with that community so it was a very sad day. While in Constanza, I met my best friend in the country thus far: a 10 year old boy named Cley. Cley was my dominoes partner everyday for 2 weeks. He made me a beaded bracelet, accompanied me to church, carried anything even slightly heavy for me, and gave me a picture of his graduation from 3rd grade. It was so adorable. And so it was especially hard to leave him. On Saturday, he just sat with me and cried for an hour while our luggage was being loaded into the bus. Even his mom kept joking with me that I would need a larger suitcase to bring Cley and dominoes back with me to Santo Domingo.

And now I'm back in Santo Domingo for our swearing-in ceremony tomorrow. Apparently this is a huge deal with both US and Dominican Republic government officials, all of our host families, and the other volunteers that are currently serving in the country. Out of our group of 50, we have unfortunately had 6 people leave: 1 for medical reasons, and 5 chose to leave. Three of those were youth volunteers, so it's been a tough three months. But hopefully the rest of us are here for the full two years. On Thursday, all of us new volunteers are headed to a pool party at the US ambassador's private home! Not too many people can say they swam at both the embassy and the ambassador's house.

And then on Saturday I am headed to Baoba for good. I went and visited my site for 5 days and I am so extremely excited to begin. Baoba is gorgeous. It's a very rural, campo with just 4 dirt roads in the entire town. It's surrounded by green valleys and cow farms, and it's just so weird to see palm trees in the middle of these pastures. There's both a high school and an elementary school in the town, which is rare, and a great resource so the children in the town don't have to travel far to go to school. And there are two basketball courts, two baseball fields, and multiple Catholic churches. Also it is just a twenty minute walk from the beach! And actually it's not just the ocean- there is a river that runs into the ocean, which is so gorgeous.

The people in Baoba seem so friendly and ready to take me on as one of their own. I've made speeches in all of the classrooms and in three church services telling them who I am and what I'm going to do, and everyone tells me that they are going to take good care of me. There are also a lot of strong women in my site, which makes me so proud. These girls (ages 17-25) aren't married and don't have kids and they keep telling me that they're going to wait until after they study and start their careers before they start their families. Also the people in Baoba want so much from me, I'm definitely going to be busy. I'm supposed to teach English (since Baoba is a beach town, close to resorts, it would be beneficial for their tourism jobs if they knew English), start a sala de tarea (an after-school homework/tutoring program), create neighborhood watch groups, a club for women, and start basketball, baseball, and volleyball teams for both boys and girls.

Also, just so you guys know there is no internet in Baoba. Hopefully I'll be able to travel to the closest large city once a week to use it, but I'm not sure. But please continue sending me mail, emails and comments on my blog! It can get lonely here, and I imagine it will only get worse once I leave all of these Americans. I really do appreciate all of the encouragement and loving words, even if I can't find the time to reply back immediately.

Monday, October 13, 2008

La Noche del Cine

Below is the recap from my journal about last night's fundraiser; Please feel free to learn from the chaotic event that occurred:

OK, So we had our big fundraiser tonight for my pastoral juvenile group. And it was seriously a disaster. We began cooking popcorn at 4:15. In total we cooked 5 lbs, or 250 small bags worth. Angelo came over to help us out right at 4:30, and about 4 more boys came over 15 minutes later. At 5:30, Rachele, Angelo and I go to the church where we’re going to have the fundraiser, while the rest of the boys and Trenita and Regina stay to continue cooking the popcorn. We set up chairs, find extension cords, and set up where the projector is going to go, so everything was looking great. This was their project, and they were actually participating and helping set everything up. Yay!

Then the drama begins. Angelo tells us that the projector is coming at 6:45. The movie is supposed to start at 7. We were expecting plenty of time to figure out how to set up the projector, but now that time is very minute. Our fellow volunteers arrive first, at 7 on the dot, looking very American and wondering why we aren’t ready to begin. The projector has yet to arrive. When the projector comes – AT 8 P.M. – the room is full of chatty, energetic preteens and teenagers.

Once the projector comes, you would think that all of our problems would be solved, and we just be an hour behind schedule. Our problems are not solved. These kids are here for social hour. They paid their 20 pesos and now want to just hang out with friends and eat popcorn and drink juice. There was absolutely no way to hear any of the movie over their incessant chattering, and nothing would make them shut up. I do not know how many times I told someone “Sientate y Callete, (sit down and shut your mouth).”

After we passed out all of the popcorn and juice, the Americans slowly began trickling out. They were only there to support us, and I do not blame them at all for leaving that chaotic zone. Around 9, everyone left. I felt extremely embarrassed to be a part of this failure, frustrated at our pastoral juvenile group for not being more put together, and just annoyed at small children in general. And I felt that we should have given some of the money back to whoever bought a ticket.

I do not really blame our pastoral juvenile group. They made the arrangements with the projector and thought it would arrive on time. That was out of our control, as were the annoying children. There was nothing we could do about those factors. And the pastoral juvenile group was extremely gracious of our support, and I think maybe a little embarrassed that we were there to witness it. It was utter chaos.

Friday, October 10, 2008

Weekly Schedule

I just realized that you guys probably have no idea what I am actually doing here. So here is this past week's schedule:

Sunday
  • 8 a.m.: Meet with my pastoral juvenile group to plant trees. This was actually an amazing project. Thirty-five kids showed up, which was about 30 more than I expected. And were able to plant about 200 seedlings.
  • 5 p.m.: Meet with my pastoral juvenile group to plan our big fundraiser
Monday
  • 8:30 a.m.-noon: Training seminar on family problems and how to resolve them
  • 12 p.m.: Lunch
  • 2 -4 p.m.: Give a presentation on sexual health (in Spanish, of course) to about 40 community members.
  • 8-9:30: Go to a religious service conducted by my pastoral juvenile group
Tuesday
  • 8:30 a.m.-noon: Training seminar on leadership skills and conflict resolution
  • 12 p.m.: Lunch
  • 2-5 p.m.: Spanish class
  • 5-7 p.m.: Health seminar
  • FREE TIME!: I played dominoes with about 5 boys until 11 p.m.
Wednesday
  • 8:30 a.m.-noon: Health seminar on sexually transmitted infections
  • 12 p.m.: Lunch
  • 2-5 p.m.: Spanish class, where we watched the movie Voces Inocentes about the civil war in Ecuador
  • FREE TIME!: Played dominoes with the same boys from 8 p.m. to midnight
Thursday
  • 9 a.m.-noon: Visit a public school and sit in on two classes. One of the classes was first grade, and there was one teacher with 46 students. Needless to say, it was chaos. The other class was second grade, and the teacher had a lot more control over those students.
  • 12 p.m.: Lunch
  • 2-5 p.m.: Spanish class
  • FREE TIME!: Played dominoes with the same boys from 8 to 11:30 p.m.
Friday
  • 8:30 a.m.-noon: Training seminar on art therapy, and how art benefits both children and adults
  • 12 p.m.: Lunch
  • 2-5 p.m.: Spanish class
  • 7:30-10:30 p.m.: All of the youth volunteers and trainers went to eat pizza. The most popular pizza topping here is corn, and it is delicious!
Saturday
  • 7:30 a.m.: Traveled to the mountains to deliver clothes and food to a poorer community
Sunday
  • 8:30 a.m.: All of the youth volunteers will go to Aguas Blancas, to relax and swim in an icy cold river
  • 4:30 p.m.: Begin preparing for the pastoral juvenile's fundraiser
  • 7 p.m.: La noche de Cine begins- We're projecting a movie (although the exact movie has yet to be decided by the group) and charging 20 pesos for entrance, a bag of popcorn and a glass of juice. The money raised goes to the group so they can buy new instruments (guitars and drums) for their religious services.

Thursday, October 2, 2008

Vamos a la playa!

Here it is...the news you have all been waiting for...

For the next two years (starting November 1), I am going to be living in a small coastal town called Baoba. It´s a rural campo on the northeastern coast of the island. In case you can't find it on the map, the closest beach is called La Entrada, and the closest large(r) city is called Cabrera. I am so extremely excited about this because there were only 3 beach sites, and I got one of them! A youth volunteer who has been in country for about 1 year is living about 20 minutes away, and another youth volunteer from my group is going to live about 30 minutes away.

Instead of working with a formal government-based organization, I´m going to be working with the youth group in the town. The pros of this are that I will have a lot of flexibility and will be able to implement a variety of projects that I want to, without conforming to the rules and regulations of a formal organization. However, the cons are that the group will probably be unorganized and lacking structure. A large part of my job will be to work with sports teams in Baoba because there are some sports facilities in the town, and I will also work on building leadership skills with the older youth in the town.

Because I am in a beach town and close to many resorts, I expect lots of visitors! Come see me!

Monday, September 29, 2008

Mas vocabulario

Ok, I've learned some more vocab. words that I think are necessary for you all to know:

Gripe (pronounced gree-pay): I unfortunately have the gripe. It's a combination of flu/cold that is hitting all of us youth volunteers. I believe 14 out of the 16 have had the gripe within the past 2 weeks. The reason why we all get the gripe is this: We are constantly playing with grubby little kids. These grubby little kids do not have constant access to water therefore handwashing is not common practice. And to top it all off, the customary Dominican greeting is to kiss each other's cheeks, so germs are spreading like wildfire here.

Patronales: Wooo! It's patronales time! This is a 9 week party in honor of the patron saint of the country. And luckily for us, it also falls on Constanza's 101 anniversary. So for the past week there has been live concerts in the park at night. I've gone every night but one, and I have a great time. And it's a lot easier to go now that my "parents" just give me the key to the house and let me come home whenever. Mom and Dad, they're almost stricter than you guys with the curfew rules.

Bachata and Merengue: I mentioned lots of dancing at patronales. Well these are the two most popular dances with salsa being a close third. I absolutely love dancing. And what's great about this country is that the guys here love dancing too, especially with an american. At patronales, we usually meet up with some kids in our youth group and just spend the entire time dancing with them. It is so much fun, and I advise all of you who plan on visiting to start working on those bachata and merengue skills because I guarantee that we will go out dancing. (Liz, this means you!)

Campo: This may be the most important word in my life right now. On Wednesday, I find out exactly where my site will be for the next two years. However, I talked to the Youth Volunteer Director, and she let it slip that I will be in a campo. A campo is an extremely small, rural town. My director guessed that my campo will have about 200-300 people in it, which probably means about 50 houses total. And the positive of this, is that whenever you come visit just find your way to the town and ask where the American lives. I guarantee they will know exactly who I am and what I am doing at that precise moment.

Wednesday, September 24, 2008

Pastoral Juvenil

In order to get more experience working with youth groups in the Dominican Republic, three other volunteers and I have been assigned to help a local group here plan some type of activity by the end of the five weeks. This activity can be pretty much anything -- a community service project to clean up trash or plant trees, a sports tournament, or an arts project.

Our group is the Pastoral Juvenil en the barrio of Las Flores. This group is Catholic, and working with them has been extremely interesting. They told us that there are about 30 members in the group, including 10 girls; However, at the meetings there are usually only about 10 members and they are all guys. Also the ages of the guys in this "youth" group range from about 14 to 28 years old.

The group is extremely religious. We go to their meetings (there is one every night of the week, but we only go to about 2 per week) so that we can plan service projects, yet every meeting we have gone to is only a worship service. This is great because the guys conduct their own service by playing the guitar and drums, singing songs, reading from the Bible and then giving testimonies on the passages read. I really enjoy the services because the songs are pretty and the services are interactive, however there is no group planning, and us Peace Corps volunteers just want to do our job and plan some sort of activity.

Last Sunday we went to our scheduled meeting at 4:30, and surprise! It was a funeral. The four of us were sitting on the front pew when all of a sudden four men walk into the church carrying a casket. We were shocked, and tried to slyly move to a pew that was farther back in the church so that we wouldn't look as out of place as we felt. I'm sure everyone was wondering why four gringas were sitting in on that funeral.

Yesterday we were finally able to plan something: a movie night to raise funds for some other event that we have yet to plan. They want to show a movie on a projector for all of the kids in the community and charge them 20 pesos to see the movie and then more more for snacks and drinks. I'm hesitant to say that our group is going to follow through on the plan, but maybe these boys will surprise me.

Monday, September 22, 2008

Observations

As part of my job here, I am here to observe the Dominican culture without judging. This is a lot easier said than done. The following are a few things that I have observed. These are generalizations, as there may be exceptions to the rule, but I have found them to be pretty much the norm.
  • Kids here, especially in the campos (rural areas) get married and start families at a young age. The 14 year old neighbor is married to a 24 year old. He also has a 5 year old daughter from a previous relationship, so now this 14 year old is a stepmom. Another girl is 12 years old and pregnant.
  • Children go to school here for about 2 hours a day, and that it is when there is no rain. One classroom can have up to 60 kids in it. And the reason why the kids are in school for so few hours a day is because they are so overcrowded that they need to go in shifts. So three different groups of students use the same school building throughout the day.
  • Also, in order to attend public school children must be able to afford the mandatory school uniforms. And their parents must have all of the correct legal papers. One of my host sisters, who is 14, is not allowed to go to school because her mom does not have all of those papers. So her day consists of waking up at 10 a.m. and watching telenovelas until the rest of the neighborhood kids come home and then playing with them.

With that said, I love Constanza. The kids here are great, and there are so many of them! I have a 13 year old sister who lives with me, and other siblings who live in the house down the street. Almost every house in our barrio has about 3 kids living in it. Everyday I end up playing tag or hide and go seek outside in the dark (no street lights), card games (I taught them Go Fish, which they all absolutely love), dominoes or volleyball. The first Saturday we were in Constanza, about 20 kids ages 6 to 13 led us hiking up one of the mountains, and they were so proud that they were able to lead the gringos.

I brought my digital camera to the Dominican Republic, but I did not bring my cord to upload the pictures to my computer. Once Dad sends me that cord, I will gladly post pictures!

Wednesday, September 10, 2008

Constanza

Tomorrow, all 17 of the youth development volunteers will pack up our bags and leave the big city of Santo Domingo for the smaller mountain town of Constanza. We will be in Constanza for about 5 weeks, where we will work directly with youth organizations. I am so ready for this! I'm ready to start working with the kids so that this trip will stop feeling like a fun summer abroad, and more like that of a Peace Corps volunteer. In Constanza, I'll stay with another host family...hopefully one that is as good as the one here in Santo Domingo. After the 5 weeks are over, I'll come back to the city for about a week before I find out my site for the next two years.

Constanza is supposed to be BEAUTIFUL! A lot of flowers that the Dominican Republic exports are grown in this region, and it is known for its large harvests of strawberries. It's in the mountains, so it will be cooler (thank goodness!), and it should have a lot of hiking trails to keep us busy on the weekends. I know we're going to go on a 5 hour walk through a rain forest during one weekend, so I cannot wait for that!

Monday, September 8, 2008

Top 5...

This post, entitled "Top 5 reasons Jordan should live in the Dominican Republic," is dedicated to my lovely sister. Those of you who know Jordan well know that she loves to eat. This is why she would fit in perfectly here in the DR.

5. Breakfast is a huge meal here. Jordan likes breakfast, I however, do not. Usually I get 2 grilled salami and cheese sandwiches; mango; apple; bowl of cornflakes; and scrambled eggs. The sandwich is called "pan," which really just means bread. So at first whenever my doña asked me if I wanted pan for breakfast, I said yes because I thought it would just be toast. It is not. Apparently pan can be anything, as long as it is accompanied by bread. ** It should be noted this category could also fall under the title of why Pete and Thomas would like to live in the Dominican Republic. When I texted them about the salami and cheese sandwiches for breakfast, both boys eagerly responded with "YUM!" **

4. Also, with breakfast I get coffee. With sugar, but no milk. I probably drink coffee 5 times a day, and it is too hot for that kind of beverage! My doña gives me coffee with every meal, whenever I am sitting on the front porch, and before bed. Jordan loves coffee (even though it's slightly different than Starbucks), and thus she would appreciate this aspect of the Dominican culture.

3. My doña also makes homemade fruit juices, which are actually more like smoothies. They are delicious, and I have now had one with about every type of fruit found in this country. Over the summer, Jordan used to make a smoothie every morning for breakfast, so that's one more reason she should come here.

2. Ice cream trucks are so common in the barrios here. One drives past my street every 5 minutes, and the most expensive item is 20 pesos. Back on Sims Road, Jordan used to moan and groan about how ice cream trucks would never come to our neighborhood, so she would LOVE this.

1. And most importantly.... whenever we are sitting in traffic, men walk around the cars and sell snacks - potato chips, candy bars, popsicles - all for about 5 pesos. It is the perfect way to break up the monotony of traffic. And although I have yet to buy anything, I have a feeling that Jordan would not exhibit the same self-control.

Saturday, August 30, 2008

La iglesia catolica

Sunday was the first day we didn’t have class so we were able to spend all day getting to know our families and the other volunteers. At 8:30 a.m. my doña and I went to church. (The service was looooooong, from 8:30 to 11 a.m.) She is Catholic so that was an interesting experience in itself. She was looking through my pictures and saw one of Jordan as the angel and me as Mary at Project: Christmas, so she immediately assumed I was Catholic also. I informed her that I was Presbyterian and she had no idea what I meant. Religiously, you’re either Catholic or Evangelical… or a devil-worshipper.

Basically during the whole service, I had no idea what was going. There were no bulletins or hymnals or Bibles to follow along with. So I stood when everyone else stood, and sat back down when everyone else sat. If there is one thing that the Peace Corps has taught me so far, it is how to be a follower. My doña told me to wear pants instead of a dress or skirt, so I did that. And she also told me to take communion, which I thought was interesting since Catholics are usually pretty particular about it. For communion, we just ate the wafer, and did not drink anything. I was glad because if we all had to drink from the same cup I was going to have to find a way to fake it.

The people’s clothes at church were interesting choices. Some were dressed up, and others were dressed way down. One lady wore a “Party Like A Rockstar” t-shirt and jeans. I am 100% she had no idea what it meant and just thought it was classy because it had words in English on it. During the moment of friendship time, so many old ladies came up and gave me hugs and kisses. It felt just like I was back at Concord. I guess sweet, old, church ladies are universal.

Tuesday, August 26, 2008

Bienvenidos a la republica dominicana

I have now been in the Dominican Republic for 5 days, and it has rained all 5 of those days. My doña can look outside and she knows when a storm will arrive and how much rain we will get. Santo Domingo is crazy, and I have so much time here just watching everything around me. It´s overwhelming, but good, very good. From the moment I stepped off the plane in this country, I have felt that I am where I am supposed to be.

In order to make reading this blog I little easier, this entry will be a glossary of terms that I have learned since living in the DR.

Doña- This is my host mother. I live with her, her husband and their son who is in his forties. The doñas are very protective of their peace corps volunteers. Mine has informed that I am not allowed to leave the house unless with a group. This means that I cannot even go meet a friend who lives down the street. The friend comes to me, and then we leave together. Doñas are also very talkative. She talks and talks, and I just respond with ¨si, si.¨

Bucket bath- My house does not have running water, so this is how I take a shower. There is a huge bucket inside the bathtub and a small pitcher next to it. I use the pitcher to scoop out the water. Dominicans are very clean, and they usually take 2 or 3 baths per day. I do not. It is such a hassle, especially to wash my hair but I´m better at it than I am at ¨flushing¨ the toilet. In order to flush, there is a small bucket next to the toilet. I have to take the bucket and force the water down the toilet, thus pushing everything through the pipes. If I do not throw enough water or do not use enough force, then nothing happens and that water was just wasted. The water situation is really the hardest thing I´ve had to deal with, so in the grand scheme of things, that´s not too bad. We have electricity, although it goes out a couple of times each night for a few hours at the time. And I have my own bedroom with a double bed and dressers and two mirrors.

El mosquitero- the mosquito net. Remember how when you were a kid and you made a fort by draping a sheet over four chairs- well, that is essentially what this is draped over my bed, except it is olive green, smells like bug spray and is itchy. But it keeps out the mosquitoes and that is what´s important. Mosquitoes that carry malaria only come out at night, and we´re taking medicine to prevent malaria as well so I´m pretty sure that´s not an issue. However, the mosquitoes that come out during the day carry dengue fever, and the only precaution against that is bug spray. About 50% of the peace corps volunteers last year got dengue.

La telenovela- These are tv shows that are like soap operas with ten times the drama. My family loves them. Our television set -- and only our television set -- is hooked up to a generator, so when the power goes out, we are still able to watch the novelas. Their favorite show is called ¨The Mark of Desire.¨ They also like American movies dubbed in Spanish. We watched Dukes of Hazzard this morning, and my doña thought it was the funniest thing ever.

El barrio- the neighborhood. There are six volunteers (including me) that live in my barrio. It is pretty much the ghetto of Santo Domingo, and I think it is the poorest of all the barrios that volunteers live in. But all of us volunteers live about 2 blocks from each other, so it´s nice to be close to them. The barrio consists of houses and tiny stores, mainly bars, clothing shops and hair salons. There are mangy stray dogs running throughout the streets, eating the trash that is everywhere. People are so careless with their things, and if they finish drinking their coffee outside, they just toss the styrofoam cup into the street without thinking twice. Also the barrio is very loud. Every house has music playing, and each one wants their music to be the loudest. Going to sleep at night is nearly impossible.

El chisme- the national ¨sport¨of the Dominican Republic -- gossip. People love to just sit outside and talk about what is going on in the barrio. My house is on the second story of a building (my doña´s store is on the first floor), and I love sitting in one of the rocking chairs on the balcony and watching the street below. I told my doña that it is my favorite place here in the DR, and she said ¨yes, the entire world passes through.¨

El tiguere- This literally means tiger, but it´s used to describe boys who catcall at girls and who are just generally obnoxious. I find that most tigures are usually around 15 years old. There is one who works at the farmacy across the street, and he is constantly hissing at me, whistling, blowing kisses and asking me to ride his moped. I just laugh and say no. It´s a part of the culture here and 3 american girls always attract attention, but it really doesn´t bother me.

Los motoconchos
- These are technically mopeds, but they´re not the wimpy little things you see around the U.S. They go as fast as motorcycles. They are a form of public transportation, and about 40% of the volunteers here must use one to go to their volunteer site. The DR is the only country that allows its volunteers to ride them. And just because they are only big enough to hold the driver and the passenger does not mean that that is how it works. There is usually 4 or 5 people on one, and the most that has been recorded is 7 people on the same moto. Also traffic in Santo Domingo is ridiculous. On a two-lane highway, there will be four lanes of cars, all honking and randomly stopping to drop and pick up passengers. Other forms of public transportation are publicos carros, which is a car meant for 5 that usually carries about 7 or 8, and a guagua, which is a large minivan.

El peso- One US dollar is worth about 35 pesos. I´m at an Internet cafe now and it costs 25 pesos per hour (so less than $1). Public transportation, which costs pretty much the same no matter how far you go in Santo Domingo, costs 20 pesos. Beer at a bar is relatively expensive- it costs about 40 pesos.

Wednesday, August 20, 2008

DR Peace Corps Facts

In the Dominican Republic...
  • There are currently 157 Peace Corps volunteers
    • 34% of those volunteers are male, and 66% are female
    • 22% are minorities
    • 3% are married
  • The median age of the volunteers is 26
  • There are 3 volunteers over the age of 50
  • The oldest current volunteer is 72

Staging

I arrived to Miami yesterday around noon. Thankfully Tropical Storm Fay didn't cause any problems with my flight, but when I arrived to the hotel I found that it had been without power the entire morning, meaning no lights, air conditioning or elevators...very similar, I imagine, to what I will be experiencing in the Dominican Republic. After storing my luggage with the hotel staff and then climbing up 20 flights of stairs to the conference room, my official Peace Corps adventure began!

There are 50 volunteers going with my group to the DR. About 15 of those are in the program I am in (youth development); 15 are economic development volunteers; 15 are health volunteers; and there are 5 volunteers in the water and sanitation development program. The volunteers come from all over the US, and there are 4 other volunteers from North Carolina- 3 graduated from Davidson College and there is another UNC alum. Our group is very young. Everyone looks to be in their twenties or thirties, and there are a lot of recent grads. There are also two young married couples. And one guy completed 2 years of Peace Corps service in Jamaica before he signed up again, so it bodes well that he enjoyed his first term enough to return.

Everyone is extremely nice and eager to go overseas. I am now known as the "girl who has never traveled outside of the U.S." (I don't think a Disney cruise when I was 13 classifies me as a world traveler), and one girl told me that I am in for a shock when I arrive in the DR and meet all of the latino men. I'll let you know what she means when I find out myself! It is just so refreshing to meet 49 smart and talented people who share your same vision and goals, and I'm really enjoying meeting everyone.

For the past two days, we have just been filling out paperwork and going over the broad issues of what we will face in the DR. We've discussed our anxieties and aspirations, and it's comforting to know that we all share the same worries (that our Spanish won't be good enough, that we will become sick from the food and water, and that we will come face to face with spiders and other insects). We've also discussed safety and how we can protect ourselves from the harassment that will inevitably occur.

Tomorrow we check out of our nice American hotel (that gives us daily complimentary chocolate chip cookies) at 6 a.m. to catch our plane to Santo Domingo at 12:15 p.m. The plane ride lasts about 2 hours, and from there our luggage will go straight to our host family and we will go to a training "retreat" for the night. The next day we meet our host family and the Peace Corps life really begins.

Tuesday, July 22, 2008

Send me mail!

The mail service in the Dominican Republic is not as efficient as that of the U.S. It can take up to three weeks for mail to arrive in the DR, and it might take about a month for mail to arrive in the US from my volunteer site. Please do not send many large packages because there are high customs taxes, and the postal staff aren't very trustworthy and might open them and steal things. For that reason it is recommended that packages be sent in padded envelopes. Even postcards should be sent inside an envelope; otherwise, they might end up on the wall of the local post office!

My mailing address while I am in Santo Domingo is:
Lauren Ramsey, PCV
Cuerpo de Paz
Avenida Bolivar 451, Gazcue
Apartado 1412
Santo Domingo
Dominican Republic

After I have been in the country for three months and move to a different site, I may have an additional post office box that is closer to where I live. But I will always be able to get mail at the Santo Domingo address whenever I visit the city.

Please send me lots and lots of mail!

Wednesday, July 16, 2008

"The toughest job you'll ever love"


Youth, Families and Community Development volunteer

As in many developing countries, the population in the Dominican Republic is young with 34% of the population under 15 and 54% under the age of 25. Some of the key challenges faced by the youth in this country include: interfamily violence, family disintegration, unemployment and social exclusion (which in turn lead to low motivation and indifference), early sexual initiation, teenage pregnancy, school desertion, HIV/AIDS infection and drug/alcohol use.

Launched in 2002, the youth, families and community development program is relatively new in the Dominican Republic. The program seeks to empower youth by increasing knowledge and skills, promoting positive decision making and enhancing positive family relationships. Working with community leaders, I will design and implement a variety of activities to empower the youth in the Dominican Republic. A general goal of these activities is to increase the kids' personal development skills, such as self esteem, gender awareness, leadership abilities, communication skills and conflict resolution. These activities include:
  • Supervised sports and arts activities, including sports events and summer camps
  • Voluntary projects such as community clean ups, registration of non documented children and environmental activities
  • Literacy programs and libraries
  • Vocational training including English and computer skills
This job requires me to be on duty 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. I get two days of vacation time per month that the Peace Corps recommends I use to travel throughout the Dominican Republic so that I can really get to better know the culture that I will be living and working in.

Tuesday, July 8, 2008

What is the Peace Corps, and why did I join?

A few excerpts from the Peace Corps Web site:

"The Peace Corps traces its roots and mission to 1960, when then Senator John F. Kennedy challenged students at the University of Michigan to serve their country in the cause of peace by living and working in developing countries. From that inspiration grew an agency of the federal government devoted to world peace and friendship.

Since that time, more than 182,000 Peace Corps Volunteers have been invited by host countries to work on issues ranging from AIDS education to information technology and environmental preservation."

Put simply, the idea is to go to developing countries and help out at a grassroots level, aiding the citizens but also empowering them to make positive changes within their countries. Another goal is to forge healthy relationships between citizens of the U.S. and other countries.

A lot of people have asked me why I chose to join the Peace Corps. I have been thinking about joining since my freshman year of college. It is something I feel called to do and something that I think will help me learn more about myself and the world outside North Carolina.

The Peace Corps, however, is not a free vacation or independent cultural study. I won't be making more than what I need to live, won't be able to save money and will be living in a developing country in the same conditions as its citizens, who have a much lower living standard than we do in the U.S. (meaning frequent community power outages and possibly no running water inside my house). But that is the less glorified part of the experience- the true beauty is that I am blessed with the opportunity to help other people and hopefully make an impact. I can't wait to see what happens!


Fast facts:
Where? Dominican Republic
What? Youth Development Volunteer
When? Miami: August 19 - 21, then to the DR
How long? 27 months (2 years of service + 3 months pre-service training)... I'll be back October 29, 2010!